2011 is literally around the corner, you know what that means — time for the RESOLUTIONS!!!
Although every day is a new day to start fresh, it’s nice to start the year off right making plans, setting goals and crossing off our “TO DO” lists…
Every year I do the same. I like to WRITE A LIST DOWN ON PAPER rather than on a a phone or computer “note”, I just like the idea of writing on paper – it feels cemented that way. I would suggest the same to all of you, it can really help bring your dreams to fruition.
Also on my list of preparing for a new year; CLEANING HOUSE! Ridding myself of excess and nonsense…literally and figuratively. I scour my closets and trash cluttering objects, but I also review my life and make sure that I’m in the place I want to be, I’m happy and that I have the right friends in my circle. It’s so easy to get stuck in a rut or be led astray by the wrong friends.
It’s important to pay attention and really REVIEW YOUR LIFE thus far. Instead of placing blame on people who did you wrong, maybe look at it from a different direction…ask yourself, “what did I do wrong there?” or “what have I learned from that experience”. In that moment, forgiving those people who may have hurt you or learning how you may have played a role in your own pain is cathartic.
Last but not least, it’s really important to be thankful for everything you have (rather than be mad at what you don’t have). I know this year has been a huge year for me and I am thankful for every milestone and but I’m especially thankful to all of my readers, supporters and fans. You all have been truly wonderful in sending me warm comments and emails (Especially my longtime readers likeÂ JASMINE, LONDON, R@ND!, Â B.DENISE,Â KIMBERLY NISHELL, NEYNA, BIZIBEE & RALPHIE SEA !!!). I went from literally being a misfit kid to being loved by cool and interesting people whom I’ve never met before.Â It feels great.
If I can shed any light to everyone who follows and supports me…it is simply this…
IF I CAN DO IT…YOU CAN DO IT!!!
Seriously! I don’t come from money, I’m not the kid of someone noteworthy in my community, I was considered a weirdo and laughed at (still am at times). All you have to be is yourself. Imagine where you want to be, what steps you needs to make to get there constantly and YOU CAN DO IT! Whatever goal you set for yourself is achievable!Â Hey, if a transgendered man can give birth to a baby, the world is your oyster!
VASHTIE’S RESOLUTION LIST:
1. GET MORE SLEEP
3. SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
4. DRAW MORE
5. WORK HARDER & HARDER
6. LEARN FRENCH
7. WORLD DOMINATION
8. KILL EM WITH KINDNESS
9. TIE UP LOOSE ENDS
SHARE YOUR RESOLUTION LIST BELOW &
DON’T FORGET TO TOAST ON NYE!!!